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Books I Read in October and November 2023

Claire and PeeWee enjoying the snow.

Hello Friends, I hope this new year is treating you well! Here is another double installment from my reading list in the hopes of getting up to date at some point.

My Book List from October:

1. Wait for It-Jenn McKinlay

Annabelle Martin moves to take a job across the country with her best friend’s firm in Phoenix. She is escaping to a new life away from her ex-husbands. She lives in a small house at the back of her reclusive landlord’s property. He uses a wheelchair and never comes outside so she assumes he is elderly. This turns out to be far from the truth. Annabelle struggles with sabotage at her new job, makes new friends, and gets to know her landlord. Quite well. Loved the book.

     

    2. Follow the Blue Blaze: A Guide to Hiking the Buckeye Trail-Robert J. Pond (Non-fiction)

    A summary of Ohio’s Buckye Trail. The book provides general information as well as information about various sections of the trail. The book does not give detailed trail maps. Those you must purchase from the Buckeye Trail Association.

     

    3. The House in the Cerulean Sea-TJ Klune

    This science fiction tale surrounds an orphanage for magical children. There are sprites and a wyvern, among others. Linus Baker works for a government entity that checks on such things and is assigned there for a month to monitor the living conditions. He learns about how special each child is, including the director of the orphanage, and his life will never be the same. Thank goodness. A very enjoyable story about acceptance.

     

    4. Milk Street Noodles-Christopher Kimball (Cookbook)

    I learned a lot about different types of noodles and the recipes look delicious. Most however, require one or several ingredients that I don’t have, and my kitchen is fairly well stocked. Back to the library it goes.

     

    5. The Ultimate Guide to Painting from Photographs-Markle & Vanover (Non-fiction)

    This is a step-by-step book for specific types of paintings and beyond my skill level at this point. I skimmed the book and learned some handy tips.

     

    6. The Simple Art of Rice-JJ Johnson (Cookbook)

    I never knew there were so many kinds of rice! Tiara Purple, Poho Flattened, Bhutanese Red. Lots of info and recipes. I can’t decide what to make because so many look good.

     

    7. Livid-Patricia Cornwall

    Dr. Scarpetta is a witness in a televised court case. The judge in the case is Scarpetta’s college roommate and friend. Things become even crazier when the judge’s sister is killed at home. Another glimpse into the life of our favorite forensic medical examiner.

     

    8. Must Love Flowers-Debbie Macomber

    Joan Sample has trouble dealing with the fact that she is a sudden widow and an empty nester. So much so that she rarely leaves the house. When the homeowner’s association sends a letter complaining about her yard, things must change. At the suggestion of her sister, she tries counseling and even takes in a young boarder. There are more bumps in the road, but Joan’s life starts changing as she takes control of the reins again.

     

    Magazines: Dogster (2), All Recipes-Fall Recipes, America’s Favorite Pumpkin Recipes, Bella Grace, Country Living

    My Book List from November:

    1. The Door to Door Bookstore-Carsten Henn

    The story takes place in Germany. Carl Kollhoff has spent his career working for a bookseller. He specializes in doing in person drop offs of requested books. He is suddenly joined by 9 year old Schascha and he has no idea why. Carl loses his job and his purpose. It will take the power of books and friends to overcome. I found this book to be a little slow paced, but it has a good message.

     

    2. Summer Reading-Jenn McKinlay

    Samantha Gale spends the summer at her family home on Martha’s Vineyard to take care of her 14 year old brother while her father and stepmother take a vacation. Sam is a chef who has just left her job under unpleasant circumstances. It will be nice to hang out with her best friend. Turns out it is nice hanging out with the town’s interim library director too. Only Sam is dyslexic. Hello, awkward! Can she win over the librarian, her brother, and find a job? I always love McKinlay’s books.

     

    3. What It Takes to Save a Life-Dr Kwane Stewart (Non-fiction)

    One man’s struggle to overcome tough times and become a veterinarian. What a great book. He goes on to volunteer treating the pets of the homeless in addition to his regular job.

     

    4. The Twelve Dogs of Christmas-Susan Wiggs

    Brenda Malloy dislikes cold and snow, and most especially Christmas. Even more so once her dog has to go to the emergency vet after eating another woman’s panties. So, of course she finds herself helping drive a load of shelter dogs north from Texas to the Catskills to their new homes for Christmas. She meets paramedic Adam Bellamy and everything in her life changes.

     

    5. The Little Book of Hygge-Meik Wiking (Non-fiction)

    This book explains why Danes are continually voted the happiest people in the world. Includes lots of survey results and ways to apply the answers to your own life. Also, the book itself is enjoyable.

     

    6. A December to Remember-Jenny Bayliss

    This book is a little different than the other Bayliss books I have read. The others have been romances. Although this one has romance, I think it is more about families. It took me a little while to get sucked into the story line, and I’m glad I stuck with it. Three estranged half-sisters go back to the village of Rowan Thorp for the reading of their Father’s will. They must work together to earn their inheritance.

    Magazines: Woman’s Day (2), Down East, Forks Over Knives, Entertain & Celebrate Autumn

    My top picks from these lists? If you’re going for fun, always read the Jenn McKinlay books. The one that made me think, long after I read it? The House in the Cerulean Sea. It made me feel good in addition to making me think about acceptance.

    I hope you all stay warm and safe from the snow we are having today!

    Goals for the New Year

    Journal illustration
    Happy 2024!

    Now that all the hubbub from the holidays is dying down, it is setting in that the new year is upon us. I am looking forward to this year being a better one for us as 2023 was rather difficult. And I intend to make it a better one.

    I titled this article Goals for the New Year since I have never been a big fan of making New Year’s resolutions. I always looked at it as a poor excuse not to set goals during the rest of the year. I would make New Year’s resolutions like, “Eat more chocolate”, as my form of protest. I know, what a rebel I am. I have set three goals that I plan to work on this year. We’ll see how far I get. Something is better than nothing, right?

    Goal #1 “Daily writing/journaling for a calendar year perspective.”

    The photo above is the inside cover page of my journal. The journal was a gift from my daughter last year and I can’t think of a better use for it. I have wanted to do some writing and following my life through a year seems appropriate with how tied to the weather our lives are here. What we do each day is very weather dependent. At this time of year, we hike. We check the weather forecast to see when the warmest temperature occurs during the day. We also check the predicted precipitation times. The goal is to stay warm and dry. During the warmer months, this flips, and we look for the cooler hours. The elements also play a part in our choice of trails for the day. Will this affect how muddy the trails are? Does the weather increase the chance for flies? How does this impact which shoes I wear? There is a bit of science to it. It’s not a good idea to just put on sneakers and run out the door.

    The weather affects our daily decisions and when we do what during gardening season too. I suppose we make our daily plans somewhat like farmers do. Infact, maybe we are a sort of farmer, except for our own enjoyment and not for profit. When it’s hot, we work outside in the mornings as much as possible. I try to limit afternoon chores outdoors as I am a baby when it comes to enduring heat. Sometimes it is necessary. Certain tasks can’t wait. If it’s been rainy, you mow when it’s dry, even if it’s 90 degrees.

    Not all of my writing will be about these physical things. I also like to ponder thoughts and emotions, and pretty much anything. Like, why do I sometimes dream that the university is coming to take my college degree back? I once had someone else tell me that they’ve had this dream too. So far, I have missed one day of journaling. Not a biggie. Onward!

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    Journal illustration

    Goal #2 “Meditate each morning on: being kind AND, how can I spread joy today?”.

    This has been going pretty well. During the brief meditation (I am starting with just two or three minutes), I focus my thoughts on drawing in peace to be stable enough myself, to be able to project positivity to others. Followed by several thoughts of a “Be Kind” mantra. Then I thought about something I might be able to do to spread kindness as I am going about my day. I plan to extend the length of this meditation as the year progresses.

    If I have trouble falling asleep at night, I have begun thinking the mantra of “Be Kind” then too. If I am awake anyway, I may as well put my time to good use. I don’t know if this goal is having any impact on my life or those around me yet. I find it hard to believe that there won’t be at least a few positive experiences from it. I believe kindness makes the world a better place. And we definitely need our world to be a better place right now.

    Goal #3 “Get another one of our dogs certified as a therapy dog.”

    This goal is totally different from the other two, but I still deem it a very worthy one. Shelby is still certified with Therapy Dogs International and works occasionally. I don’t work her very often because she will be 14 years old next month. She is still very happy to be working with mom when I do take her on a visit. I used to have hopes that Zekie would be my next therapy dog, but his anxiety never receded to a level where I can trust him to be reliable to my commands. He is very obedient, and I believe he could probably pass the test tomorrow. That still does not mean he would be a good therapy dog. He is obedient to my commands, but I must give him commands all the time. If I did not anticipate an inappropriate action, it could be a problem.

    I think the next dog I will try to train to pass the test is Claire. She will not be an easy dog to train for the required exercises, but I think we can do it. She is slow to respond to training. She is not stupid, she just doesn’t seem to understand what she is told. Either that or she just doesn’t want to do it. We will get there. One of my biggest qualms about using her for therapy work, or anything else, is the fact that she gets car sick if we drive more than about six miles. That’s why I don’t take her to my brother’s or my daughter’s homes. She would be well behaved once there but would get sick along the way. Claire also has a penchant for waiting until we are pulling into the driveway of our destination and get sick as I put the car in park. Other than hiking the only place Claire gets to go is grandma’s because it’s not very far.

    We have a storm heading our way and I see giant snowflakes out my window. The winds are starting to kick up and I’ve received an email from the electric company on how prepare for possible power outages. I should see about making dinner now. Just in case.

    Happy belated New Year to you all. May your resolutions, if you make them, be going well!

    Therapy dog
    Shelby spreading joy at an elementary school while we read to the kids.

    Foster Fail!

    Sheltie
    PeeWee

    What is a foster fail you may ask? Well, this picture sums it up. To be more precise, a foster fail is when the dog you are fostering does not leave the foster home. He is adopted by the foster family. We failed and PeeWee is home!

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    PeeWee is being a gift with his Christmas morning bow!

    On Christmas day my husband picked PeeWee up, put a bow on him, and said, “Here you go, Merry Christmas. This present is for you and Claire.” Best gift ever! Claire is one of our other shelties and the reason the gift was for her and me, is because she loves PeeWee. She seems to think he is her puppy. She plays with him throughout the day, every day. He can take bones from her mouth, and she rarely complains. When PeeWee is not looking, Claire just takes them back. They can do this for quite a while. Also, when we are out for walks or hiking, Claire keeps an eye on where PeeWee is and gazes adoringly at him every few seconds.

    We knew it would be hard on Claire if PeeWee left for another home. As for me, I realized that I was attached when he started hiking with us. He did so good for a little dog that had such emotional challenges to overcome from his former life. He just fit. And this past year has been such a rough year for us with losing Baxter, our 14 year old lab-Rott mix, in the spring and then losing our 12 year old cat Morty right after Thanksgiving. We had some other trying issues too. PeeWee has brought such joy and laughter into our home that thinking of it without him is a very sad thing.

    Rest time for some of the pack.

    I like to think that we have made PeeWee’s life happier too. He was a timid dog, who spent a great deal of time hiding under the bed in his last home, and when he arrived here, would only eat at night when no one was around. He has been here four months and now smiles, plays with us and the other dogs, and is so happy to see us in the mornings that he gets the zoomies. And he gets so excited to go on hikes now that he whines and yips with anticipation when the leashes come out if we aren’t fast enough to get out the door.

    Happy New Year to all of you, my faithful readers! Things are looking up for 2024 to be a much happier year around here as we welcome PeeWee as a permanent member of our family. It’s hard not to be happy when there is such an adorable, eager face looking you in the eye.

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    Nap time. Or king of the blanket mountain!