Books I Read in March 2024 (with Solar Eclipse photo!)

Solar Eclipse, Ravenna, Ohio
Solar Eclipse, Ravenna, Ohio, April 8, 2024, at 3:00 pm.

Hello, friends! Just wanted to share this photo from the solar eclipse we experienced on Monday. We went over to my mother-in-law’s house to share the experience and make it more festive. Some people who live one street over made it into a party. When the eclipse reached totality, everyone yelled and cheered. It was a momentous thing to see.

And now, on to my book list for the month of March, short though it is.

  1. Njuta:  The Swedish Art of Savoring the Moment- Niki Brantmark (Non-fiction)

This refers to savoring the moment from the Swedish perspective. There are chapters suggesting how to do this at home, at work, outdoor, for special occasions, etc. Basically, learn how to “take time to smell the roses”.

2. Come Rain or Come Shine-Jan Karon

This is the first book I have read from the Mitford series. The series has been around for years and seems to maintain popularity, so I thought I should give it a try. The story centers around two high school sweethearts tying the knot. The husband just graduated from veterinary school and is taking over the local practice as the old vet retires. The two also get word that the boy they applied to adopt from a poor situation is on his way. He arrives in time to take part in the wedding. They are surrounded by family, friends, and community as they prepare for the big day. A tale about family and community, sometimes one and the same. I found the book to be a little too “goody two shoes” for my taste, but if you are looking for an uplifting story, this may be it.

3. Oodles and Oodles of Vegan Noodles-Cheynese Khachame (Cookbook)

The first half of this book has recipes for cold noodle soups and cold noodle salads which aren’t really my thing. Although, the recipes in the second half look delicious, they require several items per recipe that I don’t have, and I consider myself to have a fairly well stocked kitchen.

4. The Twelve Months of Christmas-Sheila Roberts

Molly, Sunny, and Arianna all have lousy Christmas’. The three become friends and decide Christmas needs to be celebrated each month of the year to spread joy and make up for their rotten holidays. Family and friends become involved in the celebrations and the friendships grow after some rocky times. Almost makes me want to try it myself even though I enjoyed my Christmas. More socializing and celebrating is a good thing.

5. Landlines-Raynor Winn (Non-fiction)

Winn and her husband walk across England and Scotland and back again. Over 1,000 miles. Impressive in itself, but even more so because Winn’s husband suffers from a degenerative brain disease. They undertake this journey in the hopes that he will improve as happened last time they undertook a long distance hike. This is the author’s third book about her hiking adventures. I feel her pain and see the beauty as she and husband Moth take to the trails. The tale is inspiring as they persevere.

Magazines:  The Nature Conservancy, AARP, Country Living, Midwest Living, Food & Wine

Life Moves On

I was out lunching recently with two former coworkers. As you may or may not remember, I retired about four years ago. One of the ladies has gone on to another job, and the other still works for my former employer. I worked with one for many years and the other for only about 3 or 4 years. Doesn’t matter. We are all friends who enjoy seeing each other and doing things together. We are three very different people. That doesn’t matter either. We care and appreciate each other, support and cheer each other on. We all need such friends. And it’s even better when they know us and like us anyway!

During my career I earned and maintained three professional certifications that allowed me to operate Class I Drinking Water Treatment Plants, Class III Wastewater Treatment Plants, and do laboratory testing for such plants. These are not easy licenses to get and require many hours of experience and study in addition to continuing education every year. I recently let the last one expire. The cost of maintaining them was too much when I wasn’t using them. My friend that I have known for decades, asked how I felt when I let them expire. The question alone, tells me that she gets it. My response was, “I felt sad”. For one, I worked hard to get those certifications. I would have to take the state tests again if I wanted to be re-licensed. The second and for me, more important issue is that by letting them expire, I am acknowledging that this part of my life is over.

For the longest time after retirement, I still felt that part of my identity was who I had been at my job. I suppose this is what happens when you work at the same place for 32 years. It has only been recently that I felt brave enough to let all of that go. I am still the same person as I was then, even without the licenses. I reached a point where I felt like I couldn’t move on while I was still holding onto this part of my past. And so, I let the licenses go. I am unlikely to work in the water treatment industry again. That is ok. Thirty-two years of working with water and wastewater is enough. There are lots of other things out there, and it’s time to move on. Even though I haven’t been using those certifications, they were taking up space in my head. While I was still grasping onto them as a safety net, I didn’t feel free to take up something new. And now I can.

I think we are all like that without realizing it. Just because we aren’t using or thinking about something doesn’t mean it’s not occupying space in our brains. This is the basis of what some therapies are built on. Memories and experiences that are not forefront in our minds affect how we feel and what we do. Some things have to be dealt with and come to terms with before we can move on.

What my new path will be, is yet to be determined. There are so many things to do. I feel like I should try them all. Where do my strengths and passions lie? Writing, painting, craft sales, dog training, more gardening? I’m even looking into canine massage to see if that is something I would like to do. And I can decide to work on multiple things. I am my own boss now and if I want to paint in the morning and do something else in the afternoon, no one is going to tell me otherwise. Ok, maybe the dogs will protest when it is time for a walk!

I suspect many people go through the feelings that I have experienced. I had no idea that it would take me so long to get where I am though. Well, now I have arrived. I am curious to see where the rest of life takes me. Onward!

Books I Read in February 2024

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A fun book!
  1. Unleashed Holiday-Victoria Schade

I’ve been looking for this book ever since it came out in the fall. Dog trainer Chelsea Higgins is not happy when her old nemesis and former love interest Andrew locates his new gym right next to her business. She agrees to a job training Andrew’s mother’s goats. Chelsea also ends up helping Andrew train his deaf boxer and adopts an unruly Boston Terrier. We are amused by the many run ins between them all.

2. The Road to Little Dribbling-Bill Bryson (Non-fiction)

This is the sequel to Notes from a Small Island. The author moved from the United States to Britain years ago and has become a dual citizen. His descriptions of the country and his experiences are informative, and at times hilarious.

3. How to be Wildflower-Katie Daisy (Illustrated)

This is a book of gorgeous paintings by Katie Daisy with famous quotes and a bit of commentary from her. I used to buy her planners when I was working because they are so beautiful.

4. Housebroke-Jaci Burton

Hazel is living in her friend’s house with her five foster dogs, after said friend moved to the opposite coast. Hazel is surprised when renovator Lincoln Kennedy shows up, because her friend forgot to tell her the house was sold. Being a good guy, Lincoln lets Hazel, and the dogs stay in the guest house. They have all kinds of fun antics, but what will happen when it’s time for Linc to flip the house? A fun book.

5. House Cat-Paul Barbera (Non-fiction)

A cute book combining decorating and cats. We see photos of people’s interiors and meet their cats. Most of the homes are in New York, so not all my style, but still… cats!

6. A Lighthouse Christmas-Jenny Hale

Mia returns to the lighthouse where she grew up, after her grandmother’s death. She, and her mother and sister are readying it for sale to pay off debts. None of them really wants to sell it. Things are complicated when the real estate agent is good looking and nice too. Then there’s Mia’s estranged husband who wants her back. An enjoyable book.

Magazines:  Yankee, Down East, Best Friends

You may have noticed that a couple of these are Christmas books and Christmas is long over. I always enjoy a good Christmas book. I see no reason to relegate Christmas magic to December. A little bit of magic is good at any time of year.

All the fiction books were fun, it’s your pick! I enjoyed the book by Bill Bryson, and I suspect it would be especially fun as an audio book to take advantage of any British accents. I will be looking for more of Bryson’s books on a future trip to the library.

I hope all of my Ohio friends are safe and warm after yesterday’s little snowstorm. Our temperatures had been in the 60’s which resulted in me doing yard work. Yesterday we had several inches of snow, and winds. Today, it’s back to the 50’s, and 60’s in the days following. This is Ohio. We are not surprised.

Progression of a Flowerbed

Flowerbed on south side of patio.

Gardening starts early if you want good results. The first photo is from today, March 5th. And it is after I spent about an hour each of the past two days cutting dead stalks and flowers from last year. Ok, that’s not quite true because I got distracted today and decided that Claire needed a trim since her fur was so long it caught leaves when we were hiking and dragged on the ground. But we were out there for an hour each day and most of it was spent gardening!

The other two pictures are of the same flowerbed from June 14th of last year. What a transformation three months can make! Most of those plants are perennials, but don’t underestimate the work involved. There is still transplanting, splitting of plants, weeding, fertilizing, pruning, and mulching to be done. And did I mention the weeding, lol? During the summer I dead head and prune my roses about every two weeks. This seems to give the best results.

Our patio garden is completely fenced, so the dogs can come with me while I garden here. Otherwise, I would never get any work done. Cassius the greyhound naps on the patio furniture. The others usually lay on the cold flagstones in the shade, or under the Dawn Redwood. Although Claire is a busy girl and spends time watching the rock pile for chipmunks to chase. All of the dogs learn quickly to stay out of the flowerbeds. I will have to teach PeeWee, our newest addition, this skill. He learns quickly and I don’t anticipate a problem. He is only two and will almost certainly help Claire chase chipmunks.

The pictures of the beds in bloom almost make me ready for the flurry of gardening to come. But not quite. I am still resting. That’s why everything has its season.

    My Experience Using a Hiking Pole for the First Time

    On our way home from a hike today.

    It was 60 degrees here today. Quite a beautiful day for February. We took the opportunity to hike a trail that tends to be muddy.

    I received a gift of hiking poles for my birthday this year. Thanks to my brother who knows me well! This is the first time I’ve used them, as we’ve been sticking to paved surfaces and easy hikes during the previous icy and wintry weather. Actually, I used one pole today. I held the dogs’ leashes in one hand and the hiking pole in the other. It worked out well since I normally hold both leashes in one hand 75% of the time anyway.

    We started on one of the bridle trails at West Branch State Park. In my experience, horse trails are muddy a good bit of the time. After all, horses hooves are essentially shovels at the end of their legs. And horses are heavy, so the ground gets compacted. This portion of the trail was muddy and slick, but thankfully flat. The poles helped! When I slipped, they gave me better balance. I wasn’t tensing to keep my balance nearly as often.

    About half a mile out, the Buckeye Trail crossed our path and we turned onto that. Most of the mud cleared up, but the trail started going up and down hills and winding around. At some places it became narrow. What I call bunny trails. This is where the hiking pole got really useful. I felt much more stable going uphill on a narrow path. Usually, I feel like I’m going to tumble down the hill if I’m not careful. I switched hands with the pole and leashes here for better balance. Going downhill was better too as the pole took some pressure off my knees which tend to hurt when hiking on grades.

    We had a couple shallow stream crossings and I was able to keep my balance better and let the pole absorb stress rather than my knees when balancing on the logs in the water. I think the added confidence may increase my hiking speed slightly too. I am a slow hiker, so every bit helps.

    And lastly, I found an unintended use for the poles! When Zekie stops directly in front of me to sniff something, I can tap him with the pole to get him moving again. This works much better than my previous method of trying to push him away from apparently tantalizing odors with the side of my foot.

    When I walk dogs, Claire is to stay on the right and Zekie’s assigned spot is on the left. This keeps leashes from getting tangled and wound around each other or trees on the trailside. They are pretty good about staying in their spots but occasionally try to switch. I found that rather than a verbal correction, I can just physically guide them back to their place with pressure from the pole. It didn’t seem to phase them at all. They just corrected their positions without even slowing down. Kind of like a herding staff.

    The last portion of our hike to get back to the car was along the campground road. I just shortened the pole to its shortened storage length and attached it to my pack with a carabiner and an elastic loop. It worked great.

    My experience trying the hiking pole was a success and I foresee getting a lot of use out of them. I hope you were able to get outside and enjoy some beautiful weather too!

    Books I Read in December 2023 and January 2024

    Claire during a winter snow.

    I thought I would share pictures that inspire me to stay indoors and read as I share my lists of books read. And with this post, I will be up to date on sharing my reading progress! I didn’t complete many books in January. I’m not quite sure why. Must have been too much television and too many magazines.

    Books Read in December 2023:

    1. The Bone Hacker-Kathy Reichs

    Tempe Brennan, forensic anthropologist, travels to the Turks and Caicos Islands on this unexpected case. Bones are found on the island, and everything is hush hush because it would be bad for tourism. Tempe uncovers evidence that is leading to the killers, but will she solve the case in time?

    2. The Milkweed Lands-Eric Lee-Mader (Non-fiction)

    This book has lovely illustrations to go along with the text. Very informative with information about various insects and animals, life stages, and much more.

    3. Pretty Pastel Style-Selina Lake (Non-fiction)

    This is about decorating in pastel colors. It covers every room in the house, plus workspaces and outdoor spaces. The pictures are gorgeous.

    4. A Simple Act of Gratitude-John Kralik (Non-fiction)

    The author decides to see if he can change his less than happy life by being more grateful. He undertakes a year plus of writing 365 thank you notes. This book was not fast paced or full of exciting stories. I kept with it because I thought I would obtain value from reading it, and I did. There are lessons to be learned about the difference simple, kind acts can make.

    5. Botanical Style-Selina Lake (Non-fiction)

    A design and style book with beautiful photographs. There are some simple projects included too.

    6. The Land of Lost Things-John Connolly

    This is a dark fairy tale that begins and ends in our world. I enjoyed the story of Ceres who falls through a hole in a tree and comes out in another world. She must fight off all sorts of evil creatures to return home to care for her daughter. I did not realize this is the second book in a series, but it stands alone so that was ok. I will read the first book (The Book of Lost Things) sometime because I enjoyed this fantasy world.

    7. Treacle Walker-Alan Garner

    This is a short little book with another story that I would call a fairy tale. I found the story to be confusing and hard to follow. I understood enough to get something out of the tale though.

    Magazines:  Entertain & Celebrate Christmas, HGTV The Christmas Idea Book, Hobby Farms, Cottages & Bungalows

    Zekie Bear during the winter snow.

    Books Read in January 2024:

    1. The Sunset Years of Agnes Sharp-Leonie Swann

    I had a bit of trouble following the plot because some of the characters suffer from forgetfulness and dementia. A group of elderly folks live together in a house rather than going into residential care. They all have responsibilities and look out for each other. This works well until the murdered bodies start appearing. They must solve the crimes to stay safe and continue living in their home. The plot took some unexpected turns that kept me reading once I got past the slow start.

    2. The Edge of Maine-Geoffrey Wolff (Non-fiction)

    A National Geographic Directions book. The author talks about his experiences sailing the coast of Maine, peppered with local lore and history. Some stories are more interesting than others. Overall, I enjoyed the book.

    3. Dead Mountain-Preston & Child

    This is the first book I have read by these authors, and I will be reading more. FBI agent Corrie Swanson calls in her friend, archaeologist Nora Kelly to work on a case. Nine hikers disappeared under mysterious circumstances years ago and the case was never solved. Two more bodies were recently found, and the two women work together to try to solve the case. There are numerous twists and turns as new information is discovered.

    Magazines:  Cottages & Bungalows, Christmas Joy, Woman’s Day (2), Good Housekeeping (2), Food & Wine

    No one of these books really stood out to me among the others, although several were good. If you want a thriller that will keep you reading, go with Dead Mountain. Otherwise, it just depends on your mood. I find that I like different books at different times. And I am often reading two simultaneously. I usually have a fiction book and a non-fiction one that I am working on. My mood and how quiet the house is decide which one I will pick up.

    Grab a book and a cup of coffee or tea, and enjoy!

    Four of our dogs enjoying the snow.

    My Menu for the Week

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    Menu for the Week

    Like so many of you, I enjoy cooking, but the real problem is deciding what to make. So, after my trip to the grocery stores yesterday, I decided to come up with a menu for the week. And yes, that is grocery stores, as in multiple. I have three that I frequent to take advantage of the sales and the best products. One store may have a better price on some things, while another store may have a product that I consider to be of better quality. By the time I drive into town, hit all three stores, and drive back home, it usually takes me about two hours. Then add in my others stops that vary by week such as a trip to the library, the dollar store, or a thrift store and I’m looking at three hours. (Don’t tell about the stops I make at Dairy Queen for a Blizzard! The Reese’s Peanut Butter Cup Pie Blizzard is my new weakness.) On to my menu, and these are in no particular order. I pick whichever I am in the mood for or have time to make.

    Hamburgers, Sweet Potatoes, and Salad
    This is one for an evening when I am pressed for time.
    -I keep a bag of hamburger patties in a bag in the freezer. When I buy a bulk package of beef, I form all of it into decent size patties and freeze. I freeze it all this way, knowing that if I want beef for something else, I can just thaw out as many patties as I need and use it for something else like chili. I never buy ground beef that is less than 80% lean. I feel like, what’s the point because there is so much loss of grease. (I have a veggie patty for myself because I don’t eat meat aside from seafood.)
    For the sweet potato, I may just microwave it, or I may peel, dice, and boil, then add butter and brown sugar with a pinch of salt.
    -I think the salad is self-explanatory. I like to buy bags or tubs of salad mix from the markdown shelf and then extras to them.

    Stir-fry with Shrimp, Jasmine Rice, and Egg Rolls
    -I start with a bag of Asian medley vegetables from the freezer section and add other veggies of my choice to bulk it up and add more flavor. I prepared this item from the menu for last evening’s dinner. Always I start with a clove (or two!) of garlic and an onion. Yesterday, I also added quartered fresh mushrooms, a container of Napa cabbage, and some sliced peppers of assorted colors. I added in the bag of Asian medley last. Sometimes I’m not so creative and just use a frozen bag of broccoli to bulk it up. I do try to stick with vegetables grown in the United States because we have more regulations regarding the safety of food as it’s grown than some countries.
    -When I make stir-fry, I use Jasmine rice. It has a more delicate flavor than regular long grain rice. I keep three types of rice on hand that I use with different dishes, because I notice the difference and do not think one rice suits all. These are: long grain rice, Jasmine rice, and brown Basmati. These cover most of my needs.
    -For the egg rolls I almost always use fresh or frozen pre-made ones. I have made them from scratch before and they are just too much work. We don’t always have egg rolls with our stir-fry but it does make the meal seem fancier.
    -The shrimp for this meal was frozen, breaded from the supermarket. I could bake it along with the egg rolls which helped with time. If I cook the shrimp from fresh or use chicken, I cook it in the pan and set it aside, before sautéing the veggies.
    Usually, I make my own sauce, but this time I cheated and used orange ginger sauce from a jar.

    Pasta with Mid’s Spaghetti Sauce, Meatballs, and Cheesy Bread
    -This is another easy one. Cook pasta of your choice.
    -Heat jarred sauce. We really like Mid’s.
    -I keep purchased meatballs in the freezer, ground beef and vegetarian. I just put them on a plate and microwave them.
    -What really jazzes this meal up is bread from the bakery. They make a cheesy Asiago bread that is amazing!
    -We also always have a block of Romano cheese in the refrigerator for grating on top.

    Chili with Cornbread
    -Just canned tomatoes and beans (either kidney, pinto, black beans, or a combination), garlic, onions, peppers, and spices. Sometimes I add in corn or hominy, and a square of baking chocolate really adds a depth and richness. At this point I split it in half and add ground beef to half and vegetarian crumbles to half.
    -I love cornbread! I use a recipe from my mom’s church cookbook. I make it with Bob’s Redmill medium grind cornmeal as I like it to have some texture.

    Chicken Breast, Oven Fries, Green Salad with Grapefruit, Avocado, Pecans, and Cheese
    -I keep a homemade breading mix in a Ziploc bag in the freezer. I coat the chicken and put it on a baking sheet. For myself, I pull vegetarian “chicken” from the freezer.
    -I make oven fries from whole potatoes that I cut into wedges, brush with olive oil and add to the baking sheet. I salt them when they come out of the oven. I can taste the salt better that way without adding extra. Truth be told, I will be using prepared frozen potatoes from a bag this week, because one of our grocery stores had them on sale for 99 cents a bag. Not as healthy but too good a deal to pass up!
    -I bought an entire bag of grapefruit recently so I got on Pinterest and looked up grapefruit recipes. I found this one with greens, grapefruit, sliced avocado, pecans, and cheese that looks good. I’m making just one change. My husband is not a big fan of the goat cheese that it calls for so I will substitute mozzarella. And I may toast the pecans, because after splurging on them, I want them to be as tasty as possible.

    Pierogies with Peppers, Onions, and Chicken Sausage
    This is by far my easiest meal of the week. Boxed perogies, with sautéed onions and peppers. The chicken sausage will be cooked with the peppers and onions, then the perogies thrown in for a little browning. Grated cheese on top gives it a little pizazz.

    You may notice that this is only six meal choices for the week. That’s ok. There are bound to be enough leftovers from all these meals to have for dinner one evening. I also try to make enough food that we have leftovers for lunch the next day. If we run a little short for lunch and only have enough for a side, I just throw in a quesadilla or a fried egg sandwich. We also have desserts which I usually make, but that’s for another time.

    I hope you are able to glean some meal ideas from this list. I don’t always make a menu list, but it is nice to be able to hand it to my husband as dinner time approaches and say, “pick one”. It’s easier for me when I don’t have to think about it as well. Happy cooking. And happy eating!

    What’s on My Mind This Morning

    Portrait

    What’s on my mind this morning? I’m afraid it’s nothing good. We were sitting around discussing the state of the world over morning coffee. One of my thoughts was how people in general, don’t seem to treat each other with respect anymore. Now maybe that makes me an old griper, spouting “Back in my day…”, but I’m going to share just one of the ways that I don’t think we treat each other as kindly as we could.

    Often, when I am out in public, the grocery store parking lot, or a sidewalk downtown, I hear people cursing. And not just at each other, although that happens too. They are using curse words as adjectives, and frequently. The swearer doesn’t care or even seem to notice if there are children present, or anyone else who may be offended. They are sometimes in their own little world talking to their companion and don’t have a clue who is nearby. Other times, I think the person is using public swearing on purpose, because they think it makes them look cool and gives them a certain status. It does indeed give them a certain status in my mind, but I’m pretty sure it was not what they were going for.

    Now lest you think me a prude, let me state that I too curse. I do it when I am angry, or to make a point. I curse with intent! And I do not curse in the presence of children or when I am representing someone else like an employer or social group. I try not to curse when I am in public in case, I may offend someone. And I do not want to be known as someone who randomly blurts out curse words instead of using words that are more descriptive and better suit my purpose. I was taught that people who use curse words are not intelligent enough to find other words to express themselves. This may make me old by the standards of today’s world. Those of you reading this who disagree, will at least know why some of us are offended by the everyday use of curse words. And no, I don’t think all of you who curse are stupid. The times have changed along with the generations as is the way of the world.

    Our actions and our words set the tone for how others in the world see us. It’s not a bad idea for all of us to do a check on these and think about how the image we are presenting to the world aligns with the one that we want to present. Are we fostering the persona of who we want to be? If yes, you’re good to go. If not, maybe you want to make some adjustments. I know that I for one, always have room for improvement.

    Peace be with you.

    Books I Read in October and November 2023

    Claire and PeeWee enjoying the snow.

    Hello Friends, I hope this new year is treating you well! Here is another double installment from my reading list in the hopes of getting up to date at some point.

    My Book List from October:

    1. Wait for It-Jenn McKinlay

    Annabelle Martin moves to take a job across the country with her best friend’s firm in Phoenix. She is escaping to a new life away from her ex-husbands. She lives in a small house at the back of her reclusive landlord’s property. He uses a wheelchair and never comes outside so she assumes he is elderly. This turns out to be far from the truth. Annabelle struggles with sabotage at her new job, makes new friends, and gets to know her landlord. Quite well. Loved the book.

       

      2. Follow the Blue Blaze: A Guide to Hiking the Buckeye Trail-Robert J. Pond (Non-fiction)

      A summary of Ohio’s Buckye Trail. The book provides general information as well as information about various sections of the trail. The book does not give detailed trail maps. Those you must purchase from the Buckeye Trail Association.

       

      3. The House in the Cerulean Sea-TJ Klune

      This science fiction tale surrounds an orphanage for magical children. There are sprites and a wyvern, among others. Linus Baker works for a government entity that checks on such things and is assigned there for a month to monitor the living conditions. He learns about how special each child is, including the director of the orphanage, and his life will never be the same. Thank goodness. A very enjoyable story about acceptance.

       

      4. Milk Street Noodles-Christopher Kimball (Cookbook)

      I learned a lot about different types of noodles and the recipes look delicious. Most however, require one or several ingredients that I don’t have, and my kitchen is fairly well stocked. Back to the library it goes.

       

      5. The Ultimate Guide to Painting from Photographs-Markle & Vanover (Non-fiction)

      This is a step-by-step book for specific types of paintings and beyond my skill level at this point. I skimmed the book and learned some handy tips.

       

      6. The Simple Art of Rice-JJ Johnson (Cookbook)

      I never knew there were so many kinds of rice! Tiara Purple, Poho Flattened, Bhutanese Red. Lots of info and recipes. I can’t decide what to make because so many look good.

       

      7. Livid-Patricia Cornwall

      Dr. Scarpetta is a witness in a televised court case. The judge in the case is Scarpetta’s college roommate and friend. Things become even crazier when the judge’s sister is killed at home. Another glimpse into the life of our favorite forensic medical examiner.

       

      8. Must Love Flowers-Debbie Macomber

      Joan Sample has trouble dealing with the fact that she is a sudden widow and an empty nester. So much so that she rarely leaves the house. When the homeowner’s association sends a letter complaining about her yard, things must change. At the suggestion of her sister, she tries counseling and even takes in a young boarder. There are more bumps in the road, but Joan’s life starts changing as she takes control of the reins again.

       

      Magazines: Dogster (2), All Recipes-Fall Recipes, America’s Favorite Pumpkin Recipes, Bella Grace, Country Living

      My Book List from November:

      1. The Door to Door Bookstore-Carsten Henn

      The story takes place in Germany. Carl Kollhoff has spent his career working for a bookseller. He specializes in doing in person drop offs of requested books. He is suddenly joined by 9 year old Schascha and he has no idea why. Carl loses his job and his purpose. It will take the power of books and friends to overcome. I found this book to be a little slow paced, but it has a good message.

       

      2. Summer Reading-Jenn McKinlay

      Samantha Gale spends the summer at her family home on Martha’s Vineyard to take care of her 14 year old brother while her father and stepmother take a vacation. Sam is a chef who has just left her job under unpleasant circumstances. It will be nice to hang out with her best friend. Turns out it is nice hanging out with the town’s interim library director too. Only Sam is dyslexic. Hello, awkward! Can she win over the librarian, her brother, and find a job? I always love McKinlay’s books.

       

      3. What It Takes to Save a Life-Dr Kwane Stewart (Non-fiction)

      One man’s struggle to overcome tough times and become a veterinarian. What a great book. He goes on to volunteer treating the pets of the homeless in addition to his regular job.

       

      4. The Twelve Dogs of Christmas-Susan Wiggs

      Brenda Malloy dislikes cold and snow, and most especially Christmas. Even more so once her dog has to go to the emergency vet after eating another woman’s panties. So, of course she finds herself helping drive a load of shelter dogs north from Texas to the Catskills to their new homes for Christmas. She meets paramedic Adam Bellamy and everything in her life changes.

       

      5. The Little Book of Hygge-Meik Wiking (Non-fiction)

      This book explains why Danes are continually voted the happiest people in the world. Includes lots of survey results and ways to apply the answers to your own life. Also, the book itself is enjoyable.

       

      6. A December to Remember-Jenny Bayliss

      This book is a little different than the other Bayliss books I have read. The others have been romances. Although this one has romance, I think it is more about families. It took me a little while to get sucked into the story line, and I’m glad I stuck with it. Three estranged half-sisters go back to the village of Rowan Thorp for the reading of their Father’s will. They must work together to earn their inheritance.

      Magazines: Woman’s Day (2), Down East, Forks Over Knives, Entertain & Celebrate Autumn

      My top picks from these lists? If you’re going for fun, always read the Jenn McKinlay books. The one that made me think, long after I read it? The House in the Cerulean Sea. It made me feel good in addition to making me think about acceptance.

      I hope you all stay warm and safe from the snow we are having today!

      Goals for the New Year

      Journal illustration
      Happy 2024!

      Now that all the hubbub from the holidays is dying down, it is setting in that the new year is upon us. I am looking forward to this year being a better one for us as 2023 was rather difficult. And I intend to make it a better one.

      I titled this article Goals for the New Year since I have never been a big fan of making New Year’s resolutions. I always looked at it as a poor excuse not to set goals during the rest of the year. I would make New Year’s resolutions like, “Eat more chocolate”, as my form of protest. I know, what a rebel I am. I have set three goals that I plan to work on this year. We’ll see how far I get. Something is better than nothing, right?

      Goal #1 “Daily writing/journaling for a calendar year perspective.”

      The photo above is the inside cover page of my journal. The journal was a gift from my daughter last year and I can’t think of a better use for it. I have wanted to do some writing and following my life through a year seems appropriate with how tied to the weather our lives are here. What we do each day is very weather dependent. At this time of year, we hike. We check the weather forecast to see when the warmest temperature occurs during the day. We also check the predicted precipitation times. The goal is to stay warm and dry. During the warmer months, this flips, and we look for the cooler hours. The elements also play a part in our choice of trails for the day. Will this affect how muddy the trails are? Does the weather increase the chance for flies? How does this impact which shoes I wear? There is a bit of science to it. It’s not a good idea to just put on sneakers and run out the door.

      The weather affects our daily decisions and when we do what during gardening season too. I suppose we make our daily plans somewhat like farmers do. Infact, maybe we are a sort of farmer, except for our own enjoyment and not for profit. When it’s hot, we work outside in the mornings as much as possible. I try to limit afternoon chores outdoors as I am a baby when it comes to enduring heat. Sometimes it is necessary. Certain tasks can’t wait. If it’s been rainy, you mow when it’s dry, even if it’s 90 degrees.

      Not all of my writing will be about these physical things. I also like to ponder thoughts and emotions, and pretty much anything. Like, why do I sometimes dream that the university is coming to take my college degree back? I once had someone else tell me that they’ve had this dream too. So far, I have missed one day of journaling. Not a biggie. Onward!

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      Journal illustration

      Goal #2 “Meditate each morning on: being kind AND, how can I spread joy today?”.

      This has been going pretty well. During the brief meditation (I am starting with just two or three minutes), I focus my thoughts on drawing in peace to be stable enough myself, to be able to project positivity to others. Followed by several thoughts of a “Be Kind” mantra. Then I thought about something I might be able to do to spread kindness as I am going about my day. I plan to extend the length of this meditation as the year progresses.

      If I have trouble falling asleep at night, I have begun thinking the mantra of “Be Kind” then too. If I am awake anyway, I may as well put my time to good use. I don’t know if this goal is having any impact on my life or those around me yet. I find it hard to believe that there won’t be at least a few positive experiences from it. I believe kindness makes the world a better place. And we definitely need our world to be a better place right now.

      Goal #3 “Get another one of our dogs certified as a therapy dog.”

      This goal is totally different from the other two, but I still deem it a very worthy one. Shelby is still certified with Therapy Dogs International and works occasionally. I don’t work her very often because she will be 14 years old next month. She is still very happy to be working with mom when I do take her on a visit. I used to have hopes that Zekie would be my next therapy dog, but his anxiety never receded to a level where I can trust him to be reliable to my commands. He is very obedient, and I believe he could probably pass the test tomorrow. That still does not mean he would be a good therapy dog. He is obedient to my commands, but I must give him commands all the time. If I did not anticipate an inappropriate action, it could be a problem.

      I think the next dog I will try to train to pass the test is Claire. She will not be an easy dog to train for the required exercises, but I think we can do it. She is slow to respond to training. She is not stupid, she just doesn’t seem to understand what she is told. Either that or she just doesn’t want to do it. We will get there. One of my biggest qualms about using her for therapy work, or anything else, is the fact that she gets car sick if we drive more than about six miles. That’s why I don’t take her to my brother’s or my daughter’s homes. She would be well behaved once there but would get sick along the way. Claire also has a penchant for waiting until we are pulling into the driveway of our destination and get sick as I put the car in park. Other than hiking the only place Claire gets to go is grandma’s because it’s not very far.

      We have a storm heading our way and I see giant snowflakes out my window. The winds are starting to kick up and I’ve received an email from the electric company on how prepare for possible power outages. I should see about making dinner now. Just in case.

      Happy belated New Year to you all. May your resolutions, if you make them, be going well!

      Therapy dog
      Shelby spreading joy at an elementary school while we read to the kids.